Friday, June 28, 2013

Axe Murderers and Serial Killers-The Prequel

Last week I attended the 10th annual gathering of a group of garden friends who I fondly refer to as "the axe murderers and serial killers I met on the internet".  Officially the weekend was scheduled to begin on Long Island, NY last Wednesday but my adventurous friend Brenda decided to take a chance on an extended tour and arrived in Hartford from Indiana the Friday before.  The extra days gave us plenty of time to get around to the homes and gardens of other group members in southern New England.  And boy did we get around!  Like it or not, here we come...

On Saturday morning we made our way to Grafton, MA.  Two members of our group live within walking distance of each other in this quiet former mill town just southeast of Worcester.  Little did we know but a full day of activities had been lined up for our garden touring pleasure.

First stop: Mapel Plants.  John Mapel owns a garden design/maintenance firm located in Grafton.  For a month or so every spring he sells plants from a small greenhouse on a property which is also his home.  After cleaning him out of a bit of inventory, we took a quick look at his personal garden.  Below is a picture of the water feature and courtyard located just outside the front door of his very charming cottage.




From Mapel Plants we next visited Brigham Hill Farm, a local estate garden also located in Grafton.  What a place!  Acres of well maintained gardens and beautiful vistas.  On July 20th, Brigham Hill Farm will be open as part of the Garden Conservancy Worcester Area Open Days.  If you happen to be in the area, it's definitely worth a look-see.







No gardencentric trip to central Massachusetts would be complete without a trip to Tower Hill Botanic Garden.  In January I posted about the conservatories at Tower Hill HERE.  By June the party has totally moved outside.  Unfortunately (probably due to our unusually wet, cool spring this year) most of the tropicals had not yet been placed in the outdoor beds and containers.  However, it was a gorgeous day to eat lunch on the newly renovated outdoor terrace in Twigs Cafe and stroll the outdoor garden areas.








Back in Grafton, we got a rare glimpse of our friend, Denise's garden.  Unlike the many of us who shamelessly flaunt our gardens through a variety of online venues, Denise is much more restrained.  Maybe she's just up to her ass in alligators and doesn't have time for garden pursuits.  Whatever the reason, she has a naturalized area of lupines in one of her gardens that rivals any I've seen by the roadsides in northern New England.  Lupine season was coming to an end but I wish I'd gotten a better picture.

 





After a short stroll down a side street and we arrive at Lisa's.  Lisa had gone ahead to prepare a dessert of fresh berries with creme fraiche to enjoy on her deck.  In addition to growing tropicals and designing container combos, Lisa also enjoys creating interesting garden vignettes.  Oh, and in her spare time, she casts and paints beautiful concrete leaves.






After the hour or so drive home, Brenda and I toasted the opening of the big fountain on my patio with Dark 'n Stormys.  Only eight more days of this frivolity to go...





On Sunday we set out for orchard country in South Glastonbury to enjoy breakfast with a view at Rose's Berry Farm.  Food is just OK but breakfast is only served on Sundays from June through October on an outdoor covered deck.  For something different, it's worth the trip. 




After breakfast I actually got to spend a much needed hour or two spiffing up my own garden.  Then it was off for a visit and garden tour at friends, Monique and Les.  On the way we stopped at a Garden Conservancy Open Day garden.  I took no pictures at the open garden but I took plenty at Monique and Les's.  Last fall I posted about their garden HERE.  This time I remembered my real camera.





Always the consummate hosts, Monique and Les treated us to a luscious alfresco meal on their deck.  Good friends, food, wine and gardens.  It doesn't get much better than that.  Seven more days of frivolity to go...

Monday morning came early.  We were off to coastal southern Maine for a visit to friend Liz at "The Compound".  The Compound is a beautiful piece of property located on a scenic shore road.

Liz is an extremely talented and accomplished seamstress who after working for others many years recently decided to go into business for herself.  A lifetime resident of New England (like me), Liz sports a rather dry sense of humor (also like me).  After a tour of her gardens and woodland, we were treated to a delicious and lavish lunch on the lawn, peek at her home studio and a stroll across the road to some of the finest views on earth.


Disclaimer: No Idyllers was harmed in the taking of this picture.






Time with Liz passed in a flash.  Our next stop was in Nashua, NH at friend, Deanne's where we would be treated to yet another fabulous meal and spend the night.  Among other things, Deanne is an incredibly talented photographer.  My pictures will never do her garden justice.  For a better feel, check out her blog, Fortnam Gardens.  If you're in the area, Deanne's garden will be open through the Garden Conservancy Open Days the weekend of July 13-14.  I plan to be a docent in Deanne's garden on that Saturday.





Could there only be six more days of this frivolity to go?

Tuesday was my day.  Friend Kathy (Gardenbook) arrived from Napa and I hosted a kickoff party.  As luck would have it, a couple of hours before my party it rained harder than I've seen it rain in many years.  As I watched rivers run across the patio and mulch float out of my garden beds and onto the lawn, I knew I would have to activate Plan B and move the party indoors.  Although I was disappointed, everyone appeared to have a great time which is really what matters.  Maybe next time I plan a garden party it won't rain but if history is any indication I'm screwed.

If you made it to the end of this post, I applaud your persistence.  Obviously there is more to come but this just seemed like the natural breaking point.

To close I just want to say how fortunate I feel to have become a part of a group of such amazing people, some who have become my closest friends.  Our love of gardening brought us together and has kept us together but the friendships forged through the years transcend beyond the garden.  May you all be as lucky with any axe murderers and serial killers you happen to meet online.

Only five more days of frivolity to go...

Sue~





27 comments:

  1. What an action packed beginning to our annual Idyllunion! Great pics and I wish I'd been able to spend time with you all in Grafton... I was too busy getting ready for my special visitors. Great post Sue.

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  2. This axe murderer was unable to attend this year darn it! I agree with all you say about the friendship. There is something very special about these people and they have many interests in common....such as pets, humor, generosity and much more. But gardening is very much at the core.

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    1. We missed you this year, Marie! Amazing how many people have stuck around all these years, isn't it?

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  3. You really are fortunate to have such an extended group to get together with -- and each with such talents and beautiful properties. The places I am familiar with and love are Tower Hill and the berry farm near where I grew up, but you have introduced some very intriguing gardens-- many with good food that goes with the garden apparently! What a tour. Waiting for more.

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    1. It's hard to believe that this was our tenth annual get together. Lucky for me that so many in the group live within driving distance so we can get together more frequently. Good food (and drink) is always involved. Nothing is more fun during the summer months than sitting down in the garden and enjoying a great meal with a group of friends who appreciate the time and effort that goes into making everything just so.

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  4. Your serial killers and axe murderers sound like a great bunch! All the gardens are amazing and I'm looking forward to the rest of your visit.
    Absolutely love the leaf mounted on the house. Is that one of Lisa's creations? And does she sell them anywhere local?

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    1. I don't think Lisa is making leaves to sell right now, Bonnie, but I'll ask her. Usually when she has one for sale, one of us snaps it up :).

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  5. What great fun and friendships! It must be exciting to be able to share so many different gardens and indulge. Looking forward to hearing about the rest of your adventures.

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    1. Nine days went by quick! Besides me there were three other garden bloggers on the trip so I'll be sure to cross post links when they chronicle their adventures on the trip too.

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  6. The one who lives on the coast of Maine has it made. Are you sure these photos are from your group's visit? I didn't see any wine glasses.

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    1. You're confusing the Facebook version of the trip with the blog version, Jack. I don't think we visited as many wineries when we were in Napa in 2010. Who would have guessed the Long Island is the wine country of the northeast?

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  7. Wow, if this is the prequel I'm anxious to see the main course! How many pounds did you gain with all those meals, desserts and drinks?

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    1. Funny you should ask. I rarely weigh myself but usually I have trouble keeping weight on in the summer. Last week I hopped on the scale and was at a weight that is really low for me. Yay! Bring on more wine, meals and desserts!

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  8. Sue, this post is filled with so much beauty and fun! Meeting other gardeners and feeling like part of a community of like minded community have been my greatest joys, among many, of blogging. Had the pleasure of meeting Kathy yesterday. Tried to pump her for dirt on you but she only said nice things. (Really, what good is that?)

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    1. What happens at IU stays in IU :). We all met on Gardenweb but I can see how through the blogging community how similiar frienships can be formed. Portland GB Fling 2014 or bust!

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    2. Hooray! I hope to see you there!

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  9. I did make it to the end of the post, and I enjoyed every word of it. It sounds like a blast. You meet the nicest axe murderers on the internet, don't you?

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    1. I've been very fortunate. Hey, next year we're seriously considering NC for IU11. Maybe you could join us?

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  10. I can't think of a more enjoyable way to spend summer days. All of the gardens are beautiful, and it must be wonderful to spend time with fellow gardeners!

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    1. Fellow gardeners are the best! What's crazy is how well we all get along considering all the different backgrounds and personalities. Gardening is the string that ties it all together I guess.

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  11. What fun to have such friends. It is always more fun in the garden when you can share with friends. Can't wait to read more.

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    1. Especially when your friend's eyes don't glaze over during the garden tour. With non garden friends being able to read social cues is key :).

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  12. All the gaps are now filled in. What a trip!

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    1. What a trip for you and Kathy! From IU to the GB Fling. I'd be toast by now.

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  13. I'd definitely like to be in on it, if you end up in NC next year!

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  14. Beautiful shots, Sue!

    Tower Hill in particular intrigues me!

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  15. That view of the rocky coast with beach house in the distance is right out of a novel. I just don't know which one.

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